Thursday, May 31, 2012

Single Dad Syndrome - Warning

Women - When I was only 21 years old it came naturally to create the environment to start a new family was with reach. In 1991 it was my idea that the love in my life was right there with me in Toronto when I was ready but it so turned out that Veronica Romain had other plans. To be a single mom run in some. If this was what it I knew it was going to amount to, I would never in a nightmare let any child go through that knowingly.

Men - Call when labor begins - At the time that our son was being born I was at my parents house where I grew up with the 3 brothers and 1 sister until we where old enough to go out on our own and give what we as kids were given at such young age.

When I checked for messages on my phone, I can see that someone did call but did not leave a message..

My wife then said month after at the time that it not in hear custom for the man to be present when in child birth. Wow that blew me away, really because it was not brought up as a issue in the future as to what to expect... That is misleading to anyone in the same situation...I would have loved to be there to cheer our son on into this world, but instead there was much bitterness in this woman which I never knew could affect our little family. Being around but not being with our son was devastating because of the amount of hatred. Our son would hear constant bickering and arguing when he did not deserve to be the only child. I call hit and run from the male perspective... Am not just a donor of life but the way to it in a moderate and healthy aspect. 

I still think it was unfair to still see that Veronica Romain is happy feeding our negativity towards me when he has not gotten a chance to know the joy that may come from being a family unit, just because this woman has a cruelty about the whole ordeal of family life. I believe in a chance for change and I thought that by giving the time of the day and my attention to this Dominican woman that she would catch on to how it is up to us to see success... I found myself trying to convince this women namely Veronica to not be wicked, live truth and stop the lip service about what it is to live righteously in a society dedicated to anti-christism - satan governmental rule...Am still looking for a change of heart to this day...not just in her but anyone with that same attitude and thinking. When you meet a good-great person if you are bad leave them alone...even if their is unawareness of that person detecting the uglyness in you right away before things go to far making more mess for people already struggle to have fun, loving relationships... 

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